Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Reader Protects Human Life And Now Needs Help

If the sender of this message will blog comment a phone number I will privately try to help. PR

"I want to give up my child. she is 7 and half months old and i no longer want to look after her. i have other children. When i was pregnant her father begged me to abort, i refused thinking i could do it alone, its been the biggest mistake of my life, if i had just aborted i would not know be going through the anguish of giving her up."

18 comments:

Anonymous said...

it takes courage to admit that one can not raise a child. Being a parent means doing the best of your child, even if that means you give them to someone else. The fact that you carried your baby to term and feel anguish about having to give the baby away shows that you do care..If you have a family doctor you may consider talking with him or her about this.

Leonard Henderson said...

Wow. Some day, you are going to severely regret this.

Well honey, just take the kid to a grocery store and slap it's bottom.

CPS will be there instantly and give you an entirely new mission in life.

Your baby is worth at least a hundred thousand dollars to them.

Leonard Henderson, co-founder
American Family Rights Association
http://familyrights.us
"Until Every Child Comes Home" ©
"The Voice of America's Families" ©

lovingmama6 said...

7 months and now u don't want her? that is so un fare that u let her get that attached to u and now u want nothing to do w/ her u should have never gotten preg. in the first place poor baby, i feel so sorry for her u should have gave her up at birth that would have been so much better for her and not to mention u.. i have 5 kids and 3 of them i raised on my own for about 5 years it's not that hard dont give up hope u will miss her if she was gone

Andi said...

My thoughts exactly, Anonymous.

Anonymous said...

That's crazy... I have to spend thousands of dollars to pay ransom money to CPS to FIGHT for my children I am bonded to. I have to agree with the others here,minus one. How do you NOT bond with a child FROM BIRTH ??? How do you love the other children more ??? That is it. It's not easy being a single parent,or a parent period. No one said it was going to be a cake walk. Great, I applaud you for not getting an abortion. But to traumatize your own flesh and blood by signing her off at just over 7 months ??? Wow. Sorry if I am harshing your mellow, but how do you pick and chose which child you want to keep ? Your entire statement is almost unbelievable and a smidge ignorent. Good lookin' out on the behalf of your child... and it is NOT brave of you. I think it is selfish.

Anonymous said...

I don`t think anyone should look down on this mother who is being honest. 7 months obviously has formed some bond. But,I would rather her give the baby up than maybe resent the child. To the mother of this child: I hope you don`t get CPS involoved because the child could be moved from home to home. There are a lot of couples wanting a baby.

Anonymous said...

Dont give up. Things in life change. There are so many people that will help you. What you can't provide for a child now does not mean that you cannot build a life to better be able to provide more.
If anything please find a friend or family member to take her with open doors for you and your other children to be a part of her life.

Anonymous said...

I don't look down on this Mother. I am just trying to figure out... how can one be so ignorent ??? After 7 months,you are actually going to dispose of this child and keep the others ???? How does this make any sence ? Start forming bonds with others. And pray to God to send you some love for this child. Don't do this to her ??!! If you feel you don't love her and are going to hurt her... then I guess,pawn her off. And yes,PLEASE,PLEASE,for her sake do not get CPS involved ! Oh, wait~ this is their dream come true... it's too easy !

Anonymous said...

'come into my parlor said the spider to the fly'......

could be a profitable investigation for the department; she has other children of value as well....
if this mother is crying for emotional help, maybe they have a psych. eval specifically designed to help...hummm,what are the chances?
the department of king county does use a shrink who can do a T.P.R. psych. eval. with only a one and a half hour intake assessment.

Eileen Eid said...

If a mother feels that she can not care for another infant and asks for help, she should not be condemned but commended for putting the safety and well-being of her child ahead of her own feelings. This society is so judgmental. If a woman has an abortion is she is a murderer, if she keeps a child she can't provide for and needs gov assistance she a free-loader, if she gives up the baby she is selfish and cold-hearted. Look what matters is the child and its welfare. If the mother has the courage to admit that she can't raise and nurture the child and is asking for help then help should be given. I wish my mother had swallowed her pride and given me up instead of keeping me because I was an obligation/property, and contributing to the abuse I suffered under her "care". I applaud Pam Roach for offering to help this mother w/o condemnation. At least she gets it, you can tell mothers not to abort then shoot them down when they ask for help.

Anonymous said...

Um... 7 1/2 mos later ??????

Christy said...

If you would have aborted her you probably would be going through the anguish knowing you decided to kill your own flesh and blood. A baby is a blessing not a mistake! It takes to, where's the father.

Anonymous said...

Wow, I will be praying tonight for some of the people who have commented here. I just say this to the mother. google private adoption, find a good family. They do exsist.I was lucky enough to have a good family show up for my kids. You are selfless, strong and wise for doing the best for this baby. Just remember, if you give the baby up you need to make changes so that you wont feel you have to do things like that in the future. Figure out what needs fixing and get to it immediately.
God Bless You...

Lovingfitfather said...

I've mulled this situation for weeks and I for once can say I am truly speechless.
As to CPS they steamroll right over families on a daily basis and my public pretender says "They come like sheep to the slaughter; but in your case you trump them with your own callous indifference. SO SAD FOR THIS CHILD, I pray for a private adoption in this case without CPS intervention :(

Anonymous said...

I also am shocked that for some of the couples who want their babies; there seems to be an endless supply of foster/adopt couples ready to grab a baby and CPS ready to offer their services to these foster/adopt couples. Of course, especially if they are healthy. So, everytime I hear a story like this; I am surprised.

Eileen Eid said...

Dear Senator Roach,

I hope you can give us an update on this mother and child, hopefully one that is positive. Thank you for offering to help this family in a difficult situation with non-judgment.

Anonymous said...

Parents are not cowards because they want their babies and children. It takes more courage to raise a baby or child in poverty than anyone will ever know!

Anonymous said...

Well I am disappointed in some of these comments. Instead of offering this woman help some of you are out to punish her verbally. Shame on you. She is reaching out to Pam Roach for help from someone with compassion. I would like to say that Pam Roach is there for this woman and that is a good thing. Shame on you people for your cruel way of thinking. This would never happen in France. This woman would have had in home care with people coming in to assist her, not condeming her. The amount of emotional cruelty in this country is totally immoral.