Friday, January 8, 2010

Yes...Well The Plot Thickens

I don't know who sent this...but the plot thickens.

Here is another comment that I have brought forward regarding Lilly's Case:


"I know these wonderful grandparents also and would like to add that only this sweet woman {who is walking to Olympia right now PR} would call the car accident horrible. Lilys father was drunk, on drugs and racing another car when he was killed and killed others. This is public record. He also had no driver's license. If he was to have custody at all, then none of us would be hearing about Lily as she would be dead. She was with her sweet caring grandparents when the accident happened.
Lilly's deceased father (referenced in this reader comment) was raised by his grandmother because his own parents were drug addicts in and out of prison. Lilly's paternal grandfather was, of course, raised by Lilly's GGM who actually sent her son to foster care because he was so "hard to handle." Lilly is in Mexico with the paternal GGM right now. The paternal GGM is basking in the sun around a pool in Mexico while Lilly's maternal grandmother is walking a hundred miles in the rain to draw attention to the plight that DSHS has delt her family. Is there no justice? Obviously, money is not the answer to good parenting.


Maternal grandmother, Bari Willard, raised Lilly from birth. As she makes her way to Olympia walking down the back roads, she has little hope of having Lilly returned to her. This loving, humble, pre-school teacher walks in the rain. One year ago today...the state lied and took the child to give to a foster adopt (non-biological) 26 year-old single woman who put her order in for a 3 year-old, blond, pretty little girl. But, the grandmother, Mrs. Willard, called me after seeing the Stuth story on KING5.

I was compelled to try to help. I have been trying to do that for 12 months. I found out very early about a wealthy great-grandmother who had political connections and I knew then that little Lilly would not be adopted out to the foster/adopt woman. Mrs. Willard and I both called the GGM and asked her to "put in" for the GGD she had only bothered to see 3 times in 3 years. The department thought I would go away since the girl would be with "family" and why would the Senator not be satisfied with that and go away?

I have shielded the Great Grandparents by not revealing all the awful history of the family. But, this mystery reader upped the annte. Again:

"I know these wonderful grandparents (the Willards)also and would like to add that only this sweet woman would call the car accident horrible. Lillys father was drunk, on drugs and racing another car when he was killed and killed others. This is public record. He also had no driver's license. If he was to have custody at all, then none of us would be hearing about Lily as she would be dead. She was with her sweet caring grandparents when the accident happened.

MYSTERY READER...PLEASE CONTACT ME.

5 comments:

tia said...

i would also like to say that Madison (lily)'s father was not raised by his grandmother, and his parents were not drug addicts and were not in and out of prison.
yeah madison is in mexico with her great grand mother having a good time and taking a vacation something that many people enjoy, is that a bad thing? i dont think so and this is something Bari cannot do with madison, no money is not the main thing in all of this but money while raising a child is a good thing to have, so saying that its all about money is not true and Bari has taken all of Madison's money and has spent on things not towards Madison, do you think that is okay? if any of you have a heart you would be happy that she is in a great place and has a good time and has a home and and clothes to wear. so thank you for taking your time to read this.
and oh by the way im glad to say this is Madison's niece and her father (a great caring loving kid)'s little sister.

connie said...

Ok this is the person you are calling mystery reader i am actually the other grandmother the fathers mother and do I ever have a lot to say so tell me how to contact you

Lilly's broken mother said...

Pam,
To be completely honest i want more than anything to be with "lilly" but the truth is all the aruging about who's family is worse is pointless and hurtful. It should be about holding DSHS accountable.We all have pasts, we all want to be with "lilly". I also would like to add the dispite with anyone has said to you or thinks, "lilly's" father who died was a great man i cared alot about him...Lets not bring the deceased into this.He loved his daughter. Just like i do my family does and his family does.WE NEED TO WORK FOR A SOLUTION TOGETHER!!!!!!
LILLY'S MOTHER

Anonymous said...

Oh, my goodness! What a mud slinging mess. "A family divided against itself will not stand."

Four generations means four cultures and value systems. Focus on what there is in common then build on strengths. When a hurricane hits, find the eye. If one is in the torrent, how can you get past the crisis? You cannot. So, find peace in truth; stick to taking responsibility for what each is responsible for, and commit to change if change is needed. "There is none righteous, no, not one."
We are entering into the end times. Keep your lamps lit.
Jan Smith

Anonymous said...

I am offened by anyone implying a vaction off to a nice place is more important than a stable home! This is another case of absolute greed and flashing the "I'm better because I have more money" pathetic syndrome. I raised my son to be humble and not ask for more than what's needed in life. My ex-husband had to have all the new eletronics, computers and so on. My son is 29 years old and thanks me all the time for teaching him what is really important in life. Family, and caring about each other and our society. This country is about the "have's" and "have not's!" That is dangerous and unhealthy for ourselves, family's, friends and society as a whole. I agree with the other poster who said to find peace in truth. That is why there is no peace with CPS. They don't belive in the truth. I am Gorillamum by the way.